Thursday, December 17, 2020

When Roads Recite You A Story...

 


It was quite a busy day when I decided to visit my hometown the very next day, whenever I went on this travel spree it used to get my adrenaline pumping but this time also it was no less different but was pretty unsettling and making my heart restless.

When I had a good gaze on these roads, they used to bring up a new story every time I passed through them, I was wondering what they are trying to communicate to which my wavelength was unprepared to be received. Deep down under my mind was having this soft battle that these memories which you are going to visit will certainly make you cry but the very same time would also fuel you up to relive those days which were spent on a gracious note.


That sun-dappled morning arrived to show me a picturesque which demonstrated that the current life which has to be lived is a vehicle in which you are traveling and it’s spearheaded by time which acts as a wheel to this colorful life.

The gushing sound of the rivers made me depict that there is a cycle of life which it supports from the point it gets originated and the destination it's gonna flow down to. Sometimes when we have this mindset of reaching a particular destination and that would accomplish why we chose to travel, but this time it was a bit indifferent and the destination wasn't that vital fo me and it made me introspect how important is to step back and see what's going around and how can you pilot it.


The turbines which had a good float of dance to the tunes of wind used to say that there is a driving force behind all of us, you might be built monstrous, but that thin air is what adds life to it, similarly when you think that I am built to handle but there is an invisible force which keeps balancing this act of yours... Pardon me I am not getting into philosophical mode at all. The valley came alive with all its might and when I used to do self-talk that I have conquered it all with my set of machines, it just sounded futile and made me understand that you have just taken a baby step.


When the rain was set, had to bite the dust and inching it to say that you might be victorious but that's just the beginning, and when clouds roar would slow down my engines grunt and would date me back to the once little boy who used to think rains and thunderstorms are meant to instill fears in us. But now the things which I used to fear brings in the pleasure and on the contrary when life is ticking and it's in our conscious mode that we are paying to make it worth. The bricks which were built for one kingdom has gone down to sand dunes and when its dug it just dates you back to the glorious past making us realise that the only entity which you have got with you and gets you into a self-proclaimed mode that it's quite abundant for you to outlive is “Time”…


The wheels of life which I call has to be lived, let me re-iterate it's not to be lived but to make it worth! Nowadays when the “Stay-at-home” methodology has kicked in it should not be prevailed that there is no room for self-introspection, which is much needed.

The depth of dense forest which kept calling us into its vivid life was so engrossing that we forgot there are these mountainous misty and pristine ones far away from the human habitat that flourished with rich Flora and Fauna.


Rough waters always do this trick and will slow you down even if you are set to conquer and that called for Seismic Activity within to comprehend what was about to come


I will try to get this to bed in the next part of my story….


In the meantime do let me know what came to your mind when you had these words run through your watchful Eyes :) in the comments below....


Sunday, March 29, 2015

!!!SociEtY!!!---- What does this REALLY mean ???

Hey Folks.....

As my caption says... this is something which you will encounter in few hours or minutes in this post which captures many bitter and quite fruitful incidents as well and that we term as society.

Phase I Society Before even you were formed...

This typical phase involves,even before you were determined what and who you are there are group of people surrounding you and expect you to be a girl or boy, anyway you dont have much say on this and just slip into the flow and keep flowing..... YOU agree or disagree finally YOU are here thats all...

Phase II Society Which you presume or downloaded unto you...

So soon you tend to go to all your schools,even though you dont have any clue about it.... ab bhej rahe hain to jayenge naa,,, bas... finally you tend to learn there are many like you and some are much better than you... which you tend to hate but as norms say you can express hat-redness so u tend to keep mum.In a blink of an eye you realise you attend your puberty... (All YOU dirty MINDS please keep them SHUT) Thanks your innocence much appreciated,

Phase III Society YOU create ONE..

Hmmm soon you think that this is not the place you should be in and you create your own environment and try to live within it and appreciate how things are around,irrespective of whether its been appreciated or no still you do it.You tend to get so many people around who advise you as if they have seen life from last century but still have respect to that and it will tend to be a MOMENTOUS FEET... So you find yourself in such a ride where its your own ride but driven by someone else because you dont have any experience common you Jerk!!!

By these 3 phases you will realise that there is nothing called as Society this is something YOU build on your own,
you create on your own
You suffer on your own
You hate on your own
And finally you still think before doing anything on your own say what will people think ..... thats when you are lost to the core the moment YOU think what others think that puts you into a DEAD ZONE...

Well on my next part to follow you will sooon realise all the things which haven't occurred yet.... Stay Tuned.......


Saturday, September 6, 2014

YOU are a SLAVE to SAVE ...... But that doesn't mean you need not SAVE... Be a SLAVE again to SAVE!!!!!

Well... Folks... When you read this Title does it create "Mental Sophistication" on what's this and why is this ....?? Read on....

Let me date you back to all your college days where you were sitting around during your placement seasons and look forward to those JOBS which you always wanted to acquire with all your intellectual superiority .... hahaha well now you think other way round saying, Is this what I am supposed to do??? ... Well I will not dig into that now...

Its upto you to give a thought to it..So over a period of time when you will be so busy in craving up your career you enter into this strange MODE imposed by our forefathers and Elders called "SAVE"....What you want to save ??? thats good question but Even I am yet to figure out generally in the due course its referred to MONEY for all your rainy days.

Now what happens.. We keep saving all the time without even realising that we have become slaves rather I will term it as "MODERN SLAVES" at one point of time I dont see any difference what we had earlier called as Bonded Labour and now its Sophisticated Labourers"... You might be heading any position but ....Keep your EGO aside (Wink)....

Sporadically we INDIANS keep saving everything ... below are classic Examples:-

When you get parcel for food ... you make sure that the carry bag of it is saved....

When you get any things to your home the package Material is saved.....

When you receive any Luring Gifts from your Girl friends/Boy Friends (This can include Husband/Wife.. though rarely it happens still No heart feelings so Included) that Gift Wrap is saved in Lockers... as they are first admirers or Its "Irrefutable Respect"....

Other classic Species... who go to ceremonies or occasions of someone's they make sure that part of there favorite(Food/Articles....cant define :P :P) has been taken from there as well...

"Pride or Pomp"

We even take pride in exhibiting this in front of everyone that Look what we have Got.....Well still I fail to understand one thing why we SAVE.... why we cant live in our PRESENT when we haven't seen our future.... In the days of saving each and everything.... the Life which should be looked in terms of Miniature Details has lost its true meaning....

Some where down the line we SAVE and Encourage People to SAVE making them to forgo the GIFT of PRESENT and force them to Live in FUTURE which Never comes...

So all those with Superior Intelligence.... Try to Live in your PRESENT then FUTURE is being taken care offf.....

Have your own GLORY not the BORROWED GLORY.... Dont be SLAVE but be ....... left to you ..... Do let me know your thoughts ......In our Deep recess of Memory we dont remember how much we saved that day but what we really enjoyed........


Wednesday, April 30, 2014

20 things that keep bothering you when crossing 20!!!!

Hey Guys by just reading The caption you all would make out what is this all about??

When you still think you are way tooo young but soon you are approaching the science of ageing not physically but mentally toooo.... How is that well read on?????

1.Now you have landed up in Job... which you dreamt of doing when you used to study .... but tell mee are you doing what you love??? hahahaha enough dont be too sincere to yourself atleast now say truth :P :P

2. You realize Mondays are just bloodshot where as Fridays are Blood life....

3.Soon even you wish or no you will see all your Gf's/Bf'sgetting married... Obviously not with you but someone and then you bitch about them saying shit.... How the worst guy she got or how bitch he got???

4.Even though you don't wish still you will get to know the pics of your friends being uploaded the most intimate scenes of their honeymoon and you wonder is this all about ???? what you think I will not say.....

5. You thought society was everything.... you used to bother about the people around now what the fuck man.... I don't dam care.... this is how I live....

6.Suddenly you will realise that people do HATE you .... which you still think insane.... But that's true They hate.....

7.Soon you will realise who are your close friends... let it be even though you have 1000's of them on FB....

8.Girls are still attractive... but you will realise they are no more your angels, they are one of the toughest species to handle.....

9. Your friends when they meet you they bring along their set of problems so you just think okk I am still better offf....

10.You miss that peaceful life and think How Can i find one????

11.You think that your childish nature which everyone used to enjoy soon has become an irritating factor for others... but really do you even care naaaaaahhh...

12.You try to be more responsible, but end up being more irresponsible...

13.People look at you as if..... Still, if you rent married, then you are criminal and you are bound to commit crime...

14.Datings is a costly affair....

15.You are an Adult so you will be adultaerated... Don't worry, that's normal for you, but abnormal for others...

16.You realise that meetings are meant to be formal also....

17.Its ok if you get rejected by a girl or boy as they will be in a same boat as of yours...

18.People say GROW UP... but you are already grown up... I know in what way you are thinking.... :) :) That's better...

19.You seem to be lost and ask yourself is this what I should do ??? or am i supposed to do ??? Either way doesn't think too much as still you are a lost soul.....

Stilll you want see whats that 20th point..... Its you age .. Which is ageing rapidly and you soon realise that spent quarter part of your life if at you will be a centurion then which is way too difficult....

Well, nevertheless..... Live........ Enjoy ...... before it gets tooo boring..... :) :)

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Being Proud.... But yet being Humble????

Well... Guys off-late in my earlier posts you all have mentioned the things which I scribble upon are closest to the reality... I am quite fortunate enough to get that....

But this time as you read the captioned title this is something to do with your "Intrinsic Behavior".. Ooopss you might be wondering whats this "Intrinsic" all about... and by this sentence some of them would have already got the notion that Oh nooo this post again will be one of those where I cant read without the help of dictionaries.. and some of them even might think.. This Guy cant write Simple.... :) :P

Indeed Let me make it more simple "Intrinsic" I mean this behavior is well present in you but some of them try to exhibit and some of them really dont.

I know still you didn't get what I mean here... Lets take an example .... when you go to a region Like Tundra... where you see hell lots of Icebergs being floating around... when you see through your naked eyes you think hun this is so big ... ?????

But give it a second thought what you see ... if you go underneath of it there is a bigger chunk of ice hidden under water... thats exactly what I mean Intrinsic... :) :)

So... Now we are in those days where you achieve many things (not on your appraisal front ) as for many this word "APPRAISAL" has become their life line....

They Think NO APPRAISAL=NO LIFE.... huhhh :) :)

... or you may  not have achieved nothing.. still you feel some thoughts bothering you...what you think over...

In this Rat race of being good to better.....
                                     from better to best......
                                     from best to Outstanding.....
                                     from Outstanding to Exceptional....

We forget that there will be few things which we will never be proud off.. rather we turn our blind eye to them and keep moving forward.. thats what people say ...

We need to improve.. go ahead... all are shitty jargons to me as I literally fail them to understand... I am not saying even you dont understand ...  You all understand Lots...as you bank on your intelligence...

Based on my Observations.....

You are proud of:-
1.Sexy Bike/Car which you possess...
2.A big bungalow to live in....
3.Caring and most beautiful Wife...
4.Your Girlfriend/Boyfriends...
5.Your friends...
6.Or even some affairs as well... :P :P :)

Where they think (huh Many Guys/Girls just droooool over me ) and I can bring them to  bed any time... :P :) ... Utter Lustful Thought... Spare Me!!!!

So when you will be proud of YOURSELF???

Never right... Its you who make this life a LIFE to live for ....and add  more meaning to it ... but you never think....

According to me these all are equivalent to the Grave... if you are not proud of yourselves......

Take Pride for good things you are known for or those unique skills which you possess or that love which people show on you...

But at the same time make sure that you will remain Grounded.... that reflects your Fucking Personality as "Whole" and not Hole.(huh I Know some of the dirtiest minds reading this would have related this to.... ) Left to you .....

Do let me know how many times you felt proud of yourself...

Look forward to all your experiences and comments tooo :)

Sunday, March 23, 2014

LoL!!!!!!!!................... Yes It is L.....O......L :) :)

Why LOL ??????

Nowadays we are so held up in our work/Full-filling responsibilities towards our Families/ that we have forgotten that there is something called as "Sense of Humour" or Laughter which is almost out of our lives.We have become too Serious these days as what we do is day to day business and it should be taken seriously.

Not only this even we tell our children or even we were being told that we need to be serious in all our encounters.... some times I feel how ridiculous words were they????

Artificial Laugh:-

We have become the Epitome of being Serious... and there is no room for that funny bone in us... Now we are in need of artificial programmes to be aired upon to make us laugh, literally we have become unknown in knowing what is "Natural Laugh" all about .... Well we cant blame that because people have become too cautious and they generally cant withstand any humour riding upon them as if they treat them as insult.

We are not finding them who used to take any humour revolving around them was just to make fun of but in good and right spirits.

On other day I was reading a statement which says that people just wait for "Comedy Nights With Kapil"  to laugh... see the heights of dependency in this... we can see humour in each and every thing and fortunately we have to be open minded to laugh.... at your own cost and some times at others cost as well.....

My Take:-

As SRK famously states "Haso Gao Muskurao... Kya Pata Kal Ho Na hoo!!!!

Very true try to live each and every moment with Laugh,Love and finally don't just Live it Be in it!!!! 

Do let me know whats your laughing dose ?????

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Being Slow........ Is It Being Low?????

Hey Folks!!!!

There is popular saying "Slow and Steady Wins the........

Well I will not quote it further....

Nowadays life is such that you need Fast Results,Fast Food, Fast Money,Fast Honey, Fast Life...

In this matter of being fast, quick,we have sacrificed much and in those sacrifices your inner self is one among  them.

And being slow...... let that be anything you are if..... found slow and then people watch you as if you have created a blunder not being fast and quick.

This is not only in the way of living but has spread to our lives too.... Relationships where its decided even more faster.... this is particularly very evident when it comes to marriages even before you see your prospective boy/girl you will be married and when you realize it.... soon you will find it to be reality :)

Now question arises... how to Live Slow???

Its not about living slow its about living better with what you have...where we need to connect to your inner self......realise on each and everything you do and keep cherishing all the moments there on.

Being slow doesn't mean you are not good enough its all about you are fully conscious about whats happening and you are embracing it with full sense of responsibility.

Thus with this thought I would like to say that Being Slow is not Being Low but its Being Better,Brighter and Gracious too!!!

Do let me know your thoughts on not Living Fast but Living Better!!! :) :)